What does rejection mean to you? How do you handle rejection?

I have learned how to embrace the art of rejection as a positive think and here is why:

1. When someone rejects you it doesn't mean you're not good enough.
It means that they can't see well enough of who you are and what you bring to the table.

2. Don't lose your identity or change who you are to get along with someone who you're not married to.
This is a red flag and it means this person isn't for you.

3. When you're getting ready to go to another/new level and God exposes people who are in your circle it's because he doesn't want you taking trash & negativity with you.
When people show you who they are BELIEVE THEM!

4. Don't waste your time with people who don't appreciate you for who you are because this is your season for grace, mercy and favor.

Favor is what we don't deserve and not anything we have earned.

5. Whenever you discover the truth about who a person is don't lie or make excuses for them.

Learn that you can not change people and you can only be a mirror or window to their soul to help them see the truth.

In my opinion this is how I would sum up rejection:

It is truly a blessing in disguise when someone who you felt like you wanted to be with or be friends with turned you down because truly you have dodged a huge bullet which ultimately is a blessing in disguise. God doesn't make any mistakes and nothing happens by accident only by divine design.

What am I grateful for?

I am grateful and thankful for being able to attend my oldest brother Keith's wedding in Berkeley, CA on July 23, 2016.  I am grateful that God granted me traveling grace to have a safe flight there and my great friend Richard was able to provide transportation for me from the airport to my parents home. It was a very short visit but I was able to see my Dad and my Mom while having the pleasure of being apart of the wedding party in my brother's wedding.  This was a very big wedding but beautiful none the less. I was honored to be apart of such a beautiful occasion. I'm thankful that God answered my prayers and allowed the event to run rather smoothly without any incidents for the most part.  My brother was so happy to receive his bride on her BIG day.  I'm happy to see God bring such beautiful souls together to become one.  I know that my day will come and I will thoroughly enjoy it.

What is Success?

I simply define SUCCESS as this:


"Success is working my butt off everyday doing what I LOVE TO DO!"

The Ultimate Health Checklist!

1. Schedule a checkup

2. Know the five ingredients to avoid

3. Know what healthy foods to add to your diet

4. Take a Multivitamin everyday

5. Know your numbers ( BP, Cholesterol, Blood Sugar)

6. Find a Health Advocate

7. Organize your medical records

8. Get the medical tests you need

9. START EXERCISING

10. Get 7-8 Hours of sleep a night

5 Steps To Provide Great Customer Service

1) Greet the customer

2) Identify needs of customer

3) Meet the needs of customer

4) Make the Moment Memorable

5) Check results of customer satisfaction